Tuesday, February 10, 2015

listing

I wasn't sure where to begin this post until I realized that I had totally skipped Ethan's 16 month "birthday". Whoops! Our little man is babbling, half-running, climbing steps, learning words, using his signs better, (I think he thinks the sign for "please" actually means "dessert". Ha!), singing the tune of the a-b-c-d song without the actual letters.. and stealing our hearts every day. So blessed and challenged in parenting this little man.

Excuse the blur of these photos... they were taken right around the 16 month mark, and he truly is a little blur now!

So. Many. Stickers.We love our backpack from Grammie!

Spaghetti is possibly our favorite meal

*Clears a tear* - Ahem.

This post is big for us. If you know us, you know how much love, sweat and tears we have put into our house. We did the thing the people on HGTV's Fixer Upper (watching as I type!) do every episode - bought the worst house in the best neighborhood {that we could afford!} and fixed it up.

I can't estimate the number of hours that we have labored over this home. I've tried to estimate the dollars. The memories of our firstborn homing home to this house, and laboring over it before he did, are something I'll carry with me forever.

Recently, though, Austin accepted a job in Cypress, Texas. It's not far from here (though construction makes it seem much further). We're excited for the upcoming opportunity for him and the growth it should provide for his career! It was a scary, hard decision - as it always is for the sole earner of a family. It's hard to leave something that is comfortable.

We have been longing for a move to the suburbs lately - both of us, for different reasons (Austin grew up in a suburb... I grew up right here!). We prayed for months over it. We had a Realtor come out. We explored several neighborhoods in several different suburbs. No option made enough sense. Our mantra became, "it would be so great to be able to live and work in the suburbs! What a rare opportunity! Those people are so fortunate!"

Then 'those people' became us.

Before I met him, Austin has always said that he is dedicated to going to church in his neighborhood - something that's really in his community. He has even attended churches in which he stood out like a sore thumb. Our current church is located just down the road from us - a total of about 10 blocks, or a 30 minute walk (we have done it). That's rare, friends. Our church has a second location... right by his new work location.

These, among other things, have confirmed and reaffirmed our plan to list our house, and relocate to Cypress, Texas. It's a big leap of faith, even though it appears to be easy. Listing your house is not easy. Selling your house is not easy. Buying a house is not easy. There isn't a house on the market right now that is 'perfect' for us. We don't really know where we will end up. On top of that: we know what the best neighborhoods are, but is that what The Lord is calling us to? The best, the safest, the most comfortable? I want to say yes. I'm not sure that is what He is saying. The world says yes - buy the big house in the best neighborhood. UPGRADE. You deserve it.

This is what The Lord says:

For the word of the cross is folly to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God. For it is written,
“I will destroy the wisdom of the wise, and the discernment of the discerning I will thwart.” Where is the one who is wise? Where is the scribe? Where is the debater of this age? Has not God made foolish the wisdom of the world? For since, in the wisdom of God, the world did not know God through wisdom, it pleased God through the folly of what we preach to save those who believe.
{1 Corinthians 1:18-21 ESV}
We're preparing our house, and it should be on the market next week.

Pondering these things in our hearts, and praying over them with thanksgiving,

xo,

Friday, January 23, 2015

Sacred Easter - discount code!

I'm currently helping a friend of mine (and fellow BCFer) by reviewing the Lent Devotional she is writing, and I am loving every bit. Becky gets personal while diving into the book of Matthew. She takes a fresh look at Jesus' path to the cross. It's a study that's meant to be taken over 7 weeks, so it covers the entire Lenten period. If you want to prepare for Easter with a dedicated devotional, I encourage you to check this out!



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Wednesday, January 21, 2015

out with the old, in with... a different old

I sometimes wonder if I'm a special kind of crazy. I did this project in my only down time (evenings) and during naps (not down time, chore time - I postponed chores, which sent my type-A personality into a tailspin). Just this evening I read a devotional on outlining your talents... can my special kind of crazy be my talent? :) I think I say yes, if I get to have such a pretty (and CHEAP!) new dining room set!

For a while now, I've asked Austin for a new kitchen table. We have only bought brand-new furniture from IKEA/Target/Amazon because we can't stand the idea of paying thousands for furniture - EVERYTHING else has come from Craigslist, or other resale sites. While we know furniture is a worthy investment, it definitely puts a dent in the pocketbook, which is rough when you just paid off a car and a bathroom. Ouch.

We have had this kitchen table and chairs for a long time: it survived Austin and his roommate in college (his mom no longer needed it so he inherited it - a VERY nice table for a guy in college!) and we kept it through our early (3.5) years of marriage - until Sunday. We had a garage sale Saturday, sold off a few things, and sold our old table through Craigslist the next day. Since our dining room is Ethan's play room, this table is too large for the breakfast nook.

I think the flowers really sold the table!
I found a set of 6 chairs, which were black, through OfferUp. Austin picked them up and warned me that they might need work, but I didn't realize that meant I'd have to totally re-paint them!

I sanded down some scratches and spray painted them - I used 3 cans and 3 layers on each chair. I then took a piece of sandpaper (150, if you want to know the grit) to attempt to copy the classic Pottery Barn black finish. I rubbed the sandpaper on the edges - careful not to scratch the finish elsewhere - to give it that worn look.

I'm so artsy!

BEFORE: I added wood filler where a cat or dog dug into a seat 

Layer 1

Layer 2 + sanded edges. Hard to see here, but the edges of the top and the front of the seat
have been sanded.

As for the table: we picked it up Sunday, and I doubted my ability to sand and refinish the table from the minute I realized it wasn't an easy patch job. I skulked about it and eventually was persuaded by my parents to attempt the refinishing. We started the sanding process on Monday night with the sander Austin's Grammie gave us (it's a Black & Decker Mouse. We used 100-120 grit), and I finished it on Tuesday with a more heavy-duty one my dad has. Without the electric sanders, it would've been a much harder job!

Top shot! Scratches are worse than they look in this picture

Another "before" angle

This sanding just took a few minutes, but we were getting used to the Mouse

Austin pitched in for the sanding!

Where we paused Monday night

Finished sanding! And my dad's awesome sander.
I cleaned it off with tack cloths (also provided by my dad!) to get all the sawdust off the table, and I swept it off the floor as well. I really didn't want any sawdust to get disturbed and end up on my table. I immediately applied one coat of the stain to the table top, and I wiped as I went (though the instructions said I could leave it on for 15 minutes each time) because it knew it was going to be uneven if I didn't. I let it dry as long as the instructions called for (8 hours, I believe). At this point, you can add more layers of stain every 8 hours, until you like the color. I liked it a lot after the first layer, and Austin agreed, so I started the polyurethane coating today. We kept the garage door cracked for ventilation and to aid in the drying process.

The table - stain only
I painted on one coat of the polyurethane during Ethan's nap on Wednesday, and when Austin got home, I lightly sanded it  the table (220 grit, per the instructions) and applied another coat. Two to three coats are suggested, but I thought my second coat was generous enough that a third would be overkill.

Finished & drying! You can see a  little bit of a shine.
COSTS:
Table: $60
Chairs: $75
Spray Paint: $10
Wood filler: (already had)
Sandpaper: $15
Stain: $5
Polyurethane: $7
Total cost to us: $172

I'm in love!



MAJOR shout out to my 'rents. We used their truck to get the table, we used their sander, they watched our kid. If you want to see service, look at them! THREE of their kids are living with them (Meghan is totally one of us) and they still offer to serve us because I'm crazy and take on big projects on a whim. I also took their advice on refinishing the table, which looks awesome.

I can't wait for Ethan to splatter some yogurt on this bad boy tomorrow morning.

xo

Monday, January 12, 2015

The Man and the Bread

"Excuse me ma'am," the man spoke softly, turning toward me as I approached the doors to Target, "do you think I could trouble you for a loaf of bread?" I hesitated.

"Um, yes - sure. I'll run in and I'll be right out."

Today's trip to Target was supposed to be a quick one - go through the clearance section and take Ethan to the playscape in the mall. In the seconds between his asking and my reply, I decided this wasn't too much of a hassle for someone who seemed to really need that loaf of bread.

I toted the child on my hip into the store and started contemplating this man and his need. Did he really only need bread? I can't imagine how hard it would be to ask a stranger for help like that. This man, standing on the curb in front of Target looked as though he was waiting to be picked up by someone. At first glance, he didn't look homeless. I would have walked right past him and been on my way.

I'm sure I'm losing my "what is done in secret" cred, but this man and his need just struck a chord in me. I had to make myself publicly accountable for what the Lord was teaching (I love to blog, so clearly I also have a penchant for oversharing).

I'm amazed by this small way that the Lord made me aware of those in need in my neighborhood - in the middle of my day-to-day tasks. I'm a stay at home mom: my thoughts rarely drift from my tasks around the house or what I'm going to do that day in teaching, playing and occupying Ethan. But here in the midst of my day, I saw someone else in need. How often do I just look past those people? How often am I so occupied in what my family is doing that I don't notice others in my community that need some kind of help or show of love?
"Jesus answered, "The most important is, ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.""
-Mark 12:29-31, ESV
My paraphrase: love Jesus with every fiber of your being and the love for others will just pour out of you.
(Stealing this paraphrase from some friends, and loving that I'm seeing it applied in my life today.)

This lesson isn't a new one. Though it's not something I haven't heard a hundred times, it could be revolutionary. The challenge for me is to love others by opening my eyes to needs of my neighbors (which may not be limited to food for the homeless), and be willing to serve even if it makes me uncomfortable (I'm uncomfortable just typing that out!). I would be lying if I said that showing love to people who are different from me comes easily for me, but what better motivation do I have than to please the Lord?


After Target, at the playscape
Clinging to this truth today,

Monday, December 29, 2014

Stricklands in Germany: A Recap

My parents recently took us (on the trip of a lifetime!) to Germany! My dad retired earlier this year, so this was his way of celebrating his retirement, and making up for lost time on those 24-hour shifts he spent working at the fire station.

While we thought we'd be facing snow in Germany, we weren't prepared for a) zero snow and b) freezing rain! More than once, we were drenched by water and walking a city in billowing winds.

Friday
We left on Friday the 12th, and Austin and I took Ethan to daycare and his Gigi picked him up for the weekend. The "kids" all started the trip in the United Club before the flight took off, and we all spent 10 hours on a plane headed straight to Munich! 


Saturday
We landed, and eventually learned that Dad's luggage hadn't even made it on the plane. We navigated our way to a train, figured out how to bug train tickets (with the help of a German man) and were well on our way to the Munich Hauptbonhof (Central Station). our hotel was just around the corner. We ate lunchd and walked to Marienplatz, where the glockenspiel is, passing under Karlstor, and enjoying some Gluhwein in the Christkindlesmarkt on the way.

For dinner, we went to Hofbrauhaus, a famed Bavarian brewery. We had to scour the place for a table that would fit 7 people for an hour, but eventually enjoyed getting to eat dinner in a Bavarian brew house and drink a couple of liters of dunkel (dark beer).





Sunday
We went to Fussen from Munich by train to visit two castles seated in the Bavarian Alps (which border Austria). There was very little snow on the mountain tops, so they weren't quite as we expected. We arrived around 11 and got in line to buy tour tickets. We started at Hohenschwengau, which is the summer palace Bavarian King Maximilian II built. It is a much more modest palace in comparison to the second castle, Neuschwanstein.

Neuschwanstein is the fairy-tale castle (the castle in Sleeping Beauty is based on it) and one of the most famous castles in the world. It's still unfinished; Ludwig II, who had built it, died just a few months after moving in. The cause of his death is still unknown.

When we returned, we had our first adventure in Doner (lamb)... which we would repeat often, as they had falafel for me, and the lamb kabobs and gyros were a hit.















Monday
We spent Monday back in Munich, and while Sam and Meghan slept in, the rest of us caught the Glockenspiel, visited St. Michael's Church, where many Bavarian kings/dukes are buried, and then headed to another palace, Nymphenburg. This is a huge palace that's been added to over time. Like many historical buildings in Germany, part of this castle was damaged/destroyed in WWII and has since been rebuilt. We toured the palace and the carriage house. The latter of the two was especially interesting, as it housed some of the Bavarian Kings' most extravagant hunting sleighs, carriages, and other modes of (pre-automobile) transportation. Sam and Meghan met us here and went to dinner with us. From here, the parents went to another Christmas market, and the kids returned to Hofbrauhaus. Dad later joined us as well.







Tuesday
We stayed out late Monday night, so Tuesday's early ICE (high-speed) rain to Nuremburg came early. We all tried our best to sleep on the train. We all visited the Christmas market and some coffee houses, and Austin and I went shopping in a few of the local stores. I ended up with a hat, a scarf, and a new cardigan along with a Bavarian nativity and some other souvenirs for family. We enjoyed visiting Frauenkirche (which also had a glockenspiel but was mostly destroyed in WWII - later rebuilt). It was amazing to see how much of this historical city had to be rebuilt after the war.












Wednesday
Our last day in Munich, Austin and I took off on our own. We headed straight for the Munich Residenz, and toured the castle there. We also passed Odeonplatz - though Christmas trees were being sold on the plaza there, it was previously a place where Nazi soldiers would swear allegiance to Hitler and Himmler. We didn't know that until we visited a museum (Topogrophie de Terrors) in Berlin, but it was fascinating to learn.

When we visited the Residenz (the main palace where Bavarian Kings used to live) we noticed that a large amount of this palace had also been destroyed. Rather than build it back the way it was, the Germans just painted the walls: it was a permanent reminder of the Germans' tragic past.

That afternoon, Austin and I also visited Dachau Concentration Camp Memorial. It was a somber, bitterly cold and raining afternoon. We made the long train/bus ride out there just before closing. The most chilling part of the camp was the entry. I could feel the weight of what happened there as I stood under the gate: the officers and prisoners who entered there. Many of the latter would never walk back out. It was the first and one of the largest camps. They used it as propaganda that these "work camps" would rebuild Germany.

We also visited one of the last standing barracks, from where you could see the foundations where former barracks also stood. We did not have time (or emotional stamina) to visit the cremation room.

Later that night, we took our overnight train to Berlin. We were packed in like sardines because the rooms were small, and we (Austin and I) didn't pack quite as lightly as we should have. We managed to get enough sleep to make it through a full day in Berlin, though.















Thursday
We somehow managed (my the hairs of our chinny chin chin) to get off the train in time at the right stop. All the instructions were in German, and we spoke no German. We had no idea we had just moments to exit, and we were stuck waiting behind other travelers who didn't seem to care. We had quite a haul to our hotel from the Hauptbonhof.

Once we got there, everyone was craving eggs for breakfast so we went for the tried and true McDonalds, then explored the area. We started with Checkpoint Charlie, where there was a timeline of events surrounding the Berlin wall (construction and deconstruction).

While on our way to the Brandenburg Gate, we stumbled across the Topographie de Terrors, a museum situated where the SS/Gestapo headquarters in Berlin once were; the remains of one wall of the basement of the headquarters still stood as a reminder of what was - the building was destroyed in the war.

The exhibits displayed showed the formation of the Nazi party, their brutality, propaganda, and repercussions of their actions. It was the first place in all of Germany that we saw a picture of Hitler, a swastika, or any mention of Nazis. A block-long piece of the Berlin wall still stood outside of the museum as well.

We visited the Brandenburg gate, took a few family pictures by the Christmas tree there, and then ventured to the Reichstag building before going back to the hotel. We ate dinner at another Bavarian brewery (though no longer in Bavaria) and stayed a while there before turning in.
















Friday
Austin and I ventured out on our own again. We visited the Berliner Dom (regrettably, did not go inside) viewed some impressionist art at the National Gallery, and got ourselves out to Charlottenberg Palace. There, we visited the Wiehnachtsmarkt - no longer Christmas Markets, as in Bavaria where there is a stronger religious presence: these markets are just Winter Night Markets. We picked something up for Kristin, and made our way back to the hotel in the rain.

We visited a few more Christmas markets that night as well (Gendarmenmarkt and Potsdamerplatz). We also managed to get ourselves into a club in Berlin, where we heard live German rapping! It was definitely interesting, but we felt at home as they played a lot of hip-hop from the early- to mid-2000s.









Saturday
Our last day in Berlin, we started our day across town for an American-style brunch. We planned to go to Charlottenberg with the rest of the family, but it sleeted on us in the street so we pulled back into a cafe and nixed that plan. We then visited some more Weinachtsmarkts as the family had a mission to find mom some final souvenirs. 

At night, we walked the lighted, tree-lined street toward the Brandenberg Gate, and then made our way out to a final (nice) dinner, where we treated Mom & Dad as a thank-you for such an awesome trip.

















Sunday
A LONG day of traveling, we took a train and bus to the Berlin airport. We had a layover in Frankfurt after a 1-hour connecting flight, and then another 12 hours watching movies on a plane before landing at IAH. Customs were shockingly fast, but the conveyor belt bringing our luggage broke, setting us back from seeing our baby about an hour! He stayed up with GiGi until about 9, and we made it in time to see him and put him to bed. It was a perfect way to end our trip!

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Whew! I'm surprised (and glad) that I remembered all of that. :) If you ever go to Germany in the winter, I'd love to give you a few tips! (I also sincerely hope it actually snows for you - it's just dreary and cold without snow!)

Lots of thanks and eternal gratitude to my parents, who funded our flights & hotel. Y'all gave us some awesome memories!

xo,